As a kid I think most of us fantasized about what we’d be when we grew up, where we’d live, what we’d name our 2.5 kids and what kind of dog we’d have… or maybe I just shared way too much personal information and that fantasy wish list was just me! Regardless, I’m starting to feel like I’m getting to the age where some of my friends are actually engaged, married, starting a family or thinking about all three. Is it crazy that Im not there yet? Should I be? Is this my quarter life crisis? (Don’t I have another few months until I hit my quarter life?) I feel content in my life at this particular moment, I’ve recently settled into a house with the boyfriend. I’ve started yet another career and absolutely love it. Debt is disappearing, slowly but surely. Eventually I will commit to all of the others.... and world watch out...Im going to be the best bride and Baby Mama (haha).
All kidding aside though, I feel okay where I am in my life. I love the freedom I’ve created for myself by moving to an amazing city, I love my job as a Medic & @ the Assisted Living Facility. Your early/mid 20s seem like a time to discover who you are as a person. Clearly there is no magic age when you’re supposed to get married, start a family and buy a house, it’s really unique to every individual person. It’s a challenge sometimes, especially for someone like me who does wonder about the future, to open your mind, follow your heart and just live a little. There really aren’t any expectations of you out there and your life is really what you make it , so I guess I am just going to go out there and do that.
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